There are times when we are not the best versions of ourselves. In such a scenario, we not only struggle with ourselves but also with the people around us. We are stuck in what appears to be an ever-ending loop of self-loathing, hatred, overthinking, etc. We cannot handle such a phase with a positive attitude and compassion. However, when we cannot find a way for ourselves, external help might be helpful. We can take the help of others to look at the problems from a fresh perspective. Good for us, this external help is easy to approach, affordable, and 100% effective. The Laws of Human Nature by best-selling author Robert Greene is all the outward help we need to learn about human behavior. The book comprises 588 pages and covers 48 aspects of human nature vis-Ã -vis concepts of history, philosophy, psychology, and science. The prime idea behind the book is to understand what motivates human behavior to act in a certain way and how we can function together to live our lives more effectively.
Let's take a look at the book
The book is an exciting read consisting of fascinating aspects of human behavior. However, it may overwhelm us while going through the incisive description of human behavior. It's almost looking at yourself in the mirror, and we may not like what we see there. The headings of the Chapters in the book reveal the dark side of human nature. For example, See Through People's Masks, Get to Know Your Dark Side, Beware the Fragile Ego, Make Them Want to Follow You and Become an Elusive Object of Desire. Going through the headings mentioned above, one can imagine the kind of impact the author is trying to make on his readers.
The book focuses on various habits, personality traits, and thoughts that others can use as a tool to get their way. Further, the author emphasizes ways to identify such behaviors and turn them into strengths. It will not only help us to understand our triggering points but also help us to deal with others. But it's easier said than done! Nobody likes to look into their flaws and, even more so, accept that we are flawed. Through his book, the author tries to give his readers a positive outlook on this exercise. He reassures his readers that by accepting our flaws and taking steps to improve them, we can become masters of behavior patterns. Mastering our behaviors, thought processes, and designs can bring positive results, helping us become more productive, empathetic, and efficient.
The book, being almost 600 pages long, can be stressful to read. However, one needs to go through the entire book because the results of applying the principles given in the book to our lives can completely change it. The author shows the readers that even though a lot has changed since the inception of time, the human race has remained the same fundamentally. The book takes you to the lives of various distinct personalities like Anton Chekhov, Flannery O'Connor, John D. Rockefeller, Martin Luther King Jr., and many more famous characters. The readers dive deep into the lives of people like Coco Chanel, who left a mark on the fashion industry worldwide. The author also explains the thought process applied by billionaire Warren Buffet in his investment strategies.
The book allows the readers to get in touch with their inner desires and reject society's rigid norms as they stop us from reaching our true potential. We all have a lesser-known side to us that we hide from the rest of the world, consisting of desires for power, jealousy, a superiority complex, and more. The book Laws of Human Nature offers readers ways to reverse these negative tendencies into positive personality traits.
The author also emphasizes that humans are social animals and cannot exist in isolation. He reminds us that no living being on the face of the earth can live in a vacuum. Interactions, bonding, and physical and emotional connections determine who we are. According to the Laws of Human Nature, learning about human nature helps us know how to grow socially for our benefit and cultivate emotional intelligence that benefits everyone. It is essential to focus on individual growth. However, it is equally important to facilitate the development of others.
Ultimately, the author contends that if we can see people more clearly, we can also accept them for who they are and improve our ability to relate, lessening the agony of relationships for everyone. We are social animals with exceptional skills to understand other people's viewpoints. By adopting the principles provided in this book and trying to improve, we can become more sociable, better leaders, and more tolerant group members by generally developing social intelligence. It does not prohibit being conscious of your individuality and life purpose but only improves the way of living for the whole human race.
Conclusion
Even though the book may take a lot of your time and energy, that is different. Laws of Human Nature is accessible, engaging, and easy to read. The author takes us with him on a rollercoaster of 48 essential aspects of human nature with the end goal of helping us become a better version of ourselves.
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